I have the same problem. I got it with this problem. So I had pulled the fuse the other day and saw it was burnt. I bought some new ones and the first time I plugged the new one in, the lights worked after. I already had the key in but it was not on (it also does not recognize when the drivers side door is on). I can not remember if the lights came on right away when I put the fuse in or if i had to turn the key. They worked just fine while I was doing a few things in the car and then I took the key out and put it back in and the fuse blew instantly. I just checked the vanity mirror real quick on the passenger side, just in case, and there seems to be no light on it.
I went back to look at it tonight and put the key in and put a fuse in and it sparked and instantly blew. I tried turning everything off and doing it but blew a few fuses and ran out.
Any help or guidance with this? Also, one other thing I noticed while the lights were working. They turned off and I had them come back on a few times and I noticed the rear passenger reading light came on dim and flickering. I then touched/slid the overhead map light switch in the front middle there, and the rear light came to full power. I am wondering if that switch in there is having the melting problem everyone has reported. I inquired to sunset about the repair kit.
Any help or tips or ideas would be greatly appreciated.